Nobody has to suggest anywhere

Seven public venues Sarx has visited and agreed terms with, dealt one card at a time. Both people go through the same seven apart, and each chooses one. That is the whole mechanism: the question "so where do you want to go" — which is really the question "who is going to decide" — never gets asked.

• Seven, never a directory. A curated list is the only kind two people get through.
• They choose apart and neither sees the other's answer, so nobody states a preference first.
• An arrow either side of the heart: browsing costs nothing, and no venue is spent by a glance.
• There is no field to type a place into, which is what keeps a first date out of somebody's house.

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